85 Spørgsmål til spillet "Han sagde, hun sagde" i brudeshower-serien

The he said she said bridal shower game asks guests one simple thing: who said it, the bride or the groom? It is quick to set up, easy for every age group and it shows how well everyone knows the couple. Below are 85 family-friendly questions in three rounds (funny, romantic and deep), plus a way to play them live on guests' phones instead of on paper.

How to play the he said she said bridal shower game

1. Prepare the cards. Write quotes, habits or "who is more likely to" questions about the couple, or use the lists below.
2. Give each guest a card and a pen. Guests mark B for the bride, G for the groom or BG for both.
3. Read each question aloud. Let guests debate before they commit.
4. Reveal the answer. The bride or groom (or the maid of honour, if the groom is not there) shares who it was.
5. Count the points. One point per correct guess. The top scorer wins a small prize.

Tip: ask the couple for their answers beforehand, so the reveal does not rely on memory. Pick the questions that suit your guest list. A mixed group with grandparents and colleagues will enjoy the funny round most.

Play it live with AhaSlides instead of paper

Paper cards and lost pens slow the game down. With AhaSlides, guests scan a QR code and vote on their phones while the results build on the big screen. Create one afstemning dias per question, add "The bride", "The groom" and "Both" as the options, and present. You decide when to close voting, and you can hide the results until you are ready to reveal the answer.

Want to skip the setup? Open the ready-made slides and edit the questions.

Ny til AhaSlides? Tilmeld dig gratis and have the game ready in a few minutes.

Funny he said she said bridal shower game questions

Light, silly and safe for every guest. Use these to warm up the room.

1. Hvem er mere tilbøjelige til at blive besat af bryllupstjeklister og tidslinjer?
2. Who thinks they will get lost on the way to their own wedding?
3. Who is more likely to use far too many emojis in wedding planning texts?
4. Who said, "We should have a dance-like-nobody's-watching contest at the reception"?
5. Who is more likely to ask a voice assistant for wedding planning advice?
6. Who thinks they will walk down the aisle to the wrong song?
7. Who is more likely to leave the cake topper at home?
8. Who thinks they will start their vows with "Once upon a time"?
9. Who said, "Can we give out a Best Wedding Blooper award at the reception?"
10. Who is more likely to lose their ring on the honeymoon?
11. Who thinks they will trip on the way down the aisle?
12. Who is more likely to forget to put their ring back on after the ceremony?
13. Who is more likely to lock themselves in a room on the wedding day?
14. Who thinks they will leave their vows in a pocket and have someone else read them out?
15. Who said, "What about a wedding menu made entirely of different flavours of popcorn?"
16. Who is more likely to send a wedding invitation to a celebrity as a joke?
17. Who thinks they will have to chase the bouquet after the toss?
18. Who said, "What if we had a wedding inspired by our favourite sitcom?"
19. Who thinks they will give a speech with their mouth full of cake?
20. Who said, "We should have the ceremony on a trampoline"?
21. Who is more likely to send a selfie to the caterer instead of the food preferences?
22. Who thinks they will photobomb a guest's picture during the vows?
23. Who is more likely to leave the rings in the car and run back for them mid-ceremony?
24. Who thinks they will wear sunglasses through the whole ceremony?
25. Who is more likely to forget their shoes before walking down the aisle?
26. Who thinks they will video call their grandmother instead of the officiant?
27. Who is more likely to cry during the first dance?
28. Who is more likely to be late to the rehearsal dinner?
29. Who said, "Let's have a photo booth with silly props"?
30. Who is more likely to still be dancing when the music stops?

Romantic he said she said bridal shower game questions

These questions turn the spotlight on the relationship and the wedding gifts the couple might dream of.

1. Hvem er bedre til at huske vigtige datoer i forholdet?
2. Who is more likely to write love letters?
3. Who proposed, and how?
4. Hvem er bedre til at trøste den anden i svære tider?
5. Who is more likely to remember the little details of the other's day?
6. Who is more likely to bring home a surprise bunch of flowers?
7. Who is better at planning surprise dates?
8. Who is more likely to steal the blanket?
9. Hvem er mere tilbøjelige til at lave en romantisk middag til den anden?
10. Who is better at keeping secrets?
11. Hvem er mere tilbøjelige til at planlægge en spontan weekendrejse?
12. Who is more likely to start a deep conversation about the relationship?
13. Hvem er mere tilbøjelige til at planlægge en overraskelsesfest for den anden?
14. Who is better at remembering the other's favourite things?
15. Who is more likely to book a table at a fancy restaurant?
16. Who is better at organising date nights?
17. Who is better at planning memorable anniversaries?
18. Who dreams of a surprise honeymoon trip as a wedding gift?
19. Who would love a heartfelt letter as a wedding gift?
20. Hvem sagde, "Den bedste gave er din tilstedeværelse på vores særlige dag"?
21. Who would love a piece of art that marks their wedding day?
22. Who dreams of a cosy blanket to snuggle under as newlyweds?
23. Who said, "A handwritten recipe book of our favourite meals would be the perfect gift"?
24. Who would appreciate a surprise cooking class as a wedding gift?
25. Who said, "A surprise trip to our dream destination would be the ultimate gift"?

Deep he said she said bridal shower game questions

Save these for the end of the party, when guests are ready for something more heartfelt.

1. Who believes love can overcome any obstacle?
2. Who thinks understanding and empathy are crucial in love?
3. Hvem værdsætter små hverdagsbevægelser som udtryk for kærlighed?
4. Who believes love is about supporting each other's dreams?
5. Hvem sagde, "Kærlighed er den kraft, der forbinder os alle"?
6. Who thinks love means being each other's rock in difficult times?
7. Who is more likely to suggest a trip back to the place they first met?
8. Who believes love is about embracing each other's imperfections?
9. Who thinks love creates a safe space to be honest and open?
10. Who values growing old together and cherishing the memories along the way?
11. Who thinks love is about being there for each other, no matter what?
12. Who believes in the power of kindness and compassion in a partnership?
13. Who values honesty as an essential part of a loving relationship?
14. Who believes laughter makes love stronger?
15. Who thinks love is about learning something new about each other every day?
16. Who values the small joys of love as much as the big ones?
17. Who believes in the power of patience in a long relationship?
18. Who believes the wedding should celebrate the couple's family traditions?
19. Who is more likely to choose a honeymoon destination they have always dreamed of?
20. Who believes shared hobbies keep a relationship fresh?
21. Who thinks the proposal story will be retold at every anniversary?
22. Who is more likely to cry happy tears at the ceremony?
23. Who is more likely to tear up while reading their vows?
24. Who is more likely to remember the exact words of the proposal?
25. Who is the bigger romantic at heart?
26. Who first said, "I love you"?
27. Who is more likely to keep every card and letter from the wedding?
28. Who is more likely to give a heartfelt toast to the other's family?
29. Who thinks the first year of marriage will be the most fun?
30. Who is more excited about building a home together?

Tips to make the game run smoothly

• Mix the rounds. Start funny, move to romantic and finish with a deep question or two.
• Keep it kind. Skip anything that could embarrass the couple in front of relatives.
• Add a prize. A small gift for the top scorer keeps guests competitive.
• Limit the length. Around 15 to 20 questions is enough for one shower. Save the rest for the hen party or the rehearsal dinner.

Looking for more wedding games? Try our wedding quiz and trivia questions, with get-to-know and who-is rounds that also test how well guests know the couple.

Vigtige takeaways

• The he said she said game is a "who said it?" guessing game about the bride and groom.
• 85 questions across funny, romantic and deep rounds give you plenty to choose from.
• Playing it as a live poll replaces paper cards and shows the room's guesses on screen.
• Pick 15 to 20 questions, keep the tone kind and reveal the answers together.