Amathiphu angu-10 Angcono Kakhulu Okukhuluma Esidlangalaleni Ukukusiza Ukhanye

Nansi imfihlo yempumelelo yami elandelayo yesethulo: ton of amathiphu wokukhuluma esidlangalaleni ukuze ulungele futhi uqiniseke ngokwengeziwe ngaphambi kosuku lwakho olukhulu.

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Ngisakhumbula enye yezinkulumo zami zokuqala zomphakathi...

Lapho ngiyethula emcimbini wami wokuthweswa iziqu esikoleni esiphakathi, nganginovalo kakhulu. Ngethuka kakhulu esiteji, ngazizwa nginamahloni ngekhamera, futhi ngaba nazo zonke izinhlobo zezimo ezihlazisayo ezazisekhanda lami. Umzimba wami waqina, izandla zami ngathi ziyaqhaqhazela futhi ngilokhu ngiziqagela.

Nganginazo zonke izimpawu zakudala ze I-Glossophobia. Ngangingakayilungeli leyo nkulumo, kodwa ngemva kwalokho, ngathola amazwi ezeluleko ukuze angisize ngenze kangcono ngokuzayo.

Zihlole ngezansi!

• #1 - Yazi izethameli zakho
• #2 - Hlela futhi uveze inkulumo yakho
• #3 - Thola isitayela
• #4 - Naka isingeniso sakho nesiphetho
• #5 - Sebenzisa izinsiza ezibukwayo
• #6 - Wasebenzise kahle amanothi
• #7 - Zilolonge
• #8 - Ijubane & ume kancane
• #9 - Ulimi olusebenzayo nokunyakaza
• #10 - Dlulisa umlayezo wakho
• #11 - Zivumelanise nesimo

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Amathiphu Wokukhuluma Ngaphandle Kwesiteji

Ingxenye yomsebenzi okufanele uwenze iza ngaphambi kokuthi uze ungene esiteji. Ukulungiselela kahle kuzokuqinisekisa ukuzethemba okwengeziwe nokusebenza okungcono.

#1 - Yazi izethameli zakho

Kubalulekile ukuqonda izethameli zakho, njengoba inkulumo yakho idinga ukuhlobana nazo ngangokunokwenzeka. Kungaba okungenangqondo ukusho okuthile asebekwazi kakade noma okuthile okubacindezela kakhulu ukuba bakugaye ngesikhathi esifushane.

Kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi uzame ukuxazulula inkinga iningi labo elinayo. Ngaphambi kokuthi uqale ngisho nokwenza inkulumo yakho, zama 5 kungani izindlela. Lokhu kungakusiza ngempela ukuthi uthole futhi ufinyelele ekugcineni kwenkinga.

Ukuze wakhe ukuxhumana okungcono nesixuku, zama ukuthola ukuthi yikuphi okuqukethwe nemilayezo abayikhathalelayo. Nansi imibuzo engu-6 ongase uyibuze ukuze uqonde izethameli zakho futhi uthole ukuthi zifana ngani:

1. Bangobani?
2. Bafunani?
3. Nifana ngani bafo?
4. Bazini?
5. Unjani umoya wabo?
6. Kuyini ukungabaza kwabo, ukwesaba nokungaqondi kahle kwabo?

Funda okwengeziwe ngombuzo ngamunye lapha.

#2 - Hlela futhi Uveze Inkulumo yakho

Yenza uhlelo lwalokho ofuna ukukusho bese uchaza amaphuzu abalulekile ukuze wakhe uhlaka. Kusukela ohlakeni, ungabhala izinto ezimbalwa ezincane endaweni ngayinye ocabanga ukuthi zibalulekile. Phinda udlule kukho konke ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi isakhiwo sinengqondo futhi yonke imibono ibalulekile.

Ziningi izakhiwo ongazithola futhi alikho iqhinga elilodwa kukho, kodwa ungabheka lolu hlaka oluphakanyisiwe lwenkulumo engaphansi kwemizuzu engama-20:

• Qala ngokubamba ukunaka kwezithameli zakho (nansi indlela): ngaphansi kwemizuzu emi-2.
• Chaza umbono wakho ngokucacile nangobufakazi, njengokuxoxa indaba, ukuveza amaphuzu akho: cishe imizuzu eyi-15.
• Qeda ngokufingqa amaphuzu akho abalulekile (nansi indlela): ngaphansi kwemizuzu emi-2.

#3 - Thola Isitayela

Akuwona wonke umuntu onesitayela sakhe sokukhuluma esiyingqayizivele, kodwa kufanele uzame izindlela ezahlukene ukuze ubone ukuthi iyiphi ekufanele kakhulu. Kungaba okuvamile, okuhlekisayo, okusondelene, okusemthethweni, noma esinye sezitayela eziningi.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uzenze ukhululeke futhi ube ngokwemvelo lapho ukhuluma. Ungaziphoqeleli ukuba umuntu ongeyena nhlobo ukuze nje uzuze uthando oluthile noma uhleke ezilalelini; kungakwenza ubonakale uyinkohliso.

NgokukaRichard Newman, umbhali wezinkulumo kanye nesikhulumi esiqavile, kunezindlela ezi-4 ezahlukene ongakhetha kuzo, okuhlanganisa umgqugquzeli, umkhuzi, umthokozisi kanye nomsizi. Funda kabanzi ngabo bese unquma ukuthi iyiphi ekufanele kakhulu, izethameli zakho kanye nomlayezo wakho.

#4 - Naka Isingeniso nesiphetho sakho

Khumbula ukuqala nokuphetha inkulumo yakho ngenothi eliphezulu. Isingeniso esihle sizodonsa ukunaka kwesixuku, kuyilapho isiphetho esihle sibashiya nombono ohlala isikhathi eside.

Kunezindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza qala inkulumo yakho, kodwa okulula kakhulu ukuqala ngokuzethula njengomuntu onokuthile ofana ngakho nezilaleli zakho. Leli futhi kuyithuba elihle lokuveza inkinga iningi labalaleli elinayo, njengalokhu engikwenzile esingenisweni salesi sihloko.

Bese-ke, ngomzuzu wokugcina, ungase uphethe inkulumo yakho ngokucaphuna okukhuthazayo noma okukodwa kwakho amanye amasu amaningi.

Nansi inkulumo ye-TED kaSir Ken Robinson, ayiphethe ngengcaphuno evela kuBenjamin Franklin.

#5 - Sebenzisa Izinsiza Ezibonwayo

Izikhathi eziningi uma ukhuluma esidlangalaleni, awudingi usizo lwemibukiso yezilayidi, kumayelana nawe kanye namazwi akho. Kodwa kwezinye izimo, lapho isihloko sakho sicebile ngolwazi oluningiliziwe, ukusebenzisa amanye amaslayidi anezinsiza ezibukwayo kungaba usizo ngempela ezithamelini zakho ukuze zithole isithombe esicacile somlayezo wakho.

Uke waqaphela ukuthi nezikhulumi ezimangalisayo ze-TED zisebenzisa izinsiza ezibukwayo? Lokho kungenxa yokuthi bayabasiza ukuthi bafanekise imiqondo abakhuluma ngayo. Idatha, amashadi, amagrafu noma izithombe/amavidiyo, isibonelo, angakusiza ukuchaza amaphuzu akho kangcono. Kwezinye izimo, ungasebenzisa ama-props ukuze ukwenze kube okukhethekile uma kufanele.

#6 - Wasebenzise Kahle Amanothi

Ngezinkulumo eziningi, kwamukeleka ngokuphelele ukwenza amanothi futhi uwalethe nawe esiteji. Akugcini nje ngokukusiza ukuthi ukhumbule izingxenye ezibalulekile zenkulumo yakho, kodwa futhi zingakunikeza umfutho wokuzethemba; kulula kakhulu ukuqondisa inkulumo yakho uma wazi ukuthi unamanothi akho okumele ubuyele kuwo. 

Nansi indlela yokwenza amanothi amahle:

• Bhala kakhulu ukukusiza ukuthi ubambe imibono yakho kalula.
• Sebenzisa amaphepha amancane ukugcina amanothi akho ehlakaniphile.
• Inombolo nabo uma kwenzeka beshova.
• Landela uhlaka bese ubhala amanothi akho ngokulandelana okufanayo ukuze ugweme ukumosha izinto.
• Nciphisa amazwi. Bhala nje amagama angukhiye ukuze uzikhumbuze, ungayibhali yonke into.

#7 - Zilolonge

Zijwayeze ukukhuluma izikhathi ezimbalwa ngaphambi kosuku lwe-D ukuze uthuthukise amakhono akho okukhuluma esidlangalaleni. Kungase kuzwakale kulula, kodwa kukhona amathiphu ambalwa angagolide okuthola okuningi ngesikhathi sakho sokuzijwayeza.

• Zilolonge esiteji - Ungazama ukuzilolonga esiteji (noma indawo ozoma kuyo) ukuze uzizwele igumbi. Ngokuvamile, kungcono ukuma phakathi nendawo bese uzama ukunamathela kuleso simo.
• Yiba nothile njengezethameli zakho - Zama ukucela abangani abambalwa noma osebenza nabo ukuthi babe izethameli zakho futhi ubone ukuthi basabela kanjani kulokho okushoyo.
• Khetha ingubo - A efanele futhi ingubo ekhululekile kuzokusiza uzizwe ukhululekile futhi uchwepheshe lapho wenza inkulumo yakho. 
• Yenza izinguquko - Impahla yakho ingase ingaphumeleli njalo ekuziqeqesheni, kodwa lokho kulungile. Ungesabi ukushintsha eminye imibono ngemva kokuyihlola.

Esiteji Amacebiso Okukhuluma Komphakathi

Isikhathi sakho sokuqhakaza! Nawa amathiphu ambalwa okufanele uwakhumbule lapho wethula inkulumo yakho emangalisayo.

#8 - Ijubane & Misa Isikhashana

Naka ijubane lakho. Ukukhuluma ngokushesha okukhulu noma okunensayo kakhulu kungase kusho ukuthi izethameli zakho ziphuthelwe okunye okuqukethwe inkulumo yakho, noma ukuthi ziphelelwa isithakazelo ngoba ubuchopho bazo busebenza ngokushesha kunomlomo wakho.

Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuma kancane. Ukukhuluma njalo kungenza kube nzima ukuthi izethameli zigaye ulwazi lwakho. Hlikihla inkulumo yakho ibe izingxenye ezincane bese unikeza imizuzwana embalwa yokuthula phakathi kwazo.

Uma ukhohlwe okuthile, qhubeka nayo yonke inkulumo yakho ngokusemandleni akho (noma uhlole amanothi akho). Uma ukhubeka, yima kancane, bese uqhubeka.

Ungase uqaphele ukuthi kukhona okukhohliwe ohlakeni lwakho, kodwa cishe izilaleli ngeke zikwazi lokho, ngakho emehlweni azo, yonke into oyishoyo iyikho konke okulungiselele. Ungavumeli lezi zinto ezincane zonakalise inkulumo yakho noma ukuzethemba kwakho ngoba usenakho okunye ongakunikeza.

#9 - Ulimi Oluphumelelayo Nokunyakaza

Ukukutshela ukuthi uqaphele ulimi lwakho lomzimba kungase kube i-cliche enhle, kodwa kuyadingeka. Ulimi lomzimba ingelinye lamakhono okukhuluma asebenza ngempumelelo ukukusiza ukuthi wakhe ukuxhumana okungcono nezithameli futhi uzenze zigxile kangcono.

• Ukuxhumana kwamehlo - Kufanele ubheke indawo yezethameli, kodwa ungawasusi amehlo akho ngokushesha. Indlela elula iwukuba ngeso lengqondo ekhanda lakho ukuthi kunezindawo zezethameli ezi-3, eyodwa ngakwesobunxele, phakathi nendawo nangakwesokudla. Khona-ke, lapho ukhuluma, bheka indawo ngayinye isikhashana (mhlawumbe cishe imizuzwana emi-5-10) ngaphambi kokudlulela kwezinye.  
• Movement - Ukuzulazula izikhathi ezimbalwa phakathi nenkulumo yakho kungakusiza ubukeke ungokwemvelo (Yebo, kuphela uma ungamile ngemuva kwesiteji). Ukuthatha izinyathelo ezimbalwa ukuya kwesokunxele, kwesokudla noma ukuya phambili kungakusiza uzizwe ukhululeke kakhudlwana.
• Ukuthinta kwesandla - Uma ubambe imakrofoni ngesandla esisodwa, khululeka futhi ugcine esinye isandla singokwemvelo. Buka amavidiyo ambalwa ukuze ubone ukuthi izipikha ezinhle zinyakazisa kanjani izandla zazo, bese uzilingisa. 

Bheka le vidiyo futhi ufunde kukho kokubili okuqukethwe kwesikhulumi nolimi lomzimba.

#10 - Dlulisa umlayezo wakho

Inkulumo yakho kufanele idlulisele umlayezo ezilalelini, ngezinye izikhathi ube nenjongo, ucabange noma ukhuthaze ukuze ukhumbuleke kakhudlwana. Qiniseka ukuthi uletha umlayezo oyinhloko wenkulumo kuwo wonke bese uwufingqa ekugcineni. Bheka ukuthi uTaylor Swift wenzani enkulumweni yakhe yokuthweswa iziqu eNyuvesi yaseNew York; ngemva kokuxoxa indaba yakhe nokunikeza izibonelo ezimbalwa ezimfushane, wadlulisa umyalezo wakhe 👇 

“Futhi ngeke ngiqambe amanga, la maphutha azokwenza ulahlekelwe yizinto.

Ngizama ukukutshela ukuthi ukulahlekelwa izinto akusho ukulahlekelwa. Isikhathi esiningi, lapho silahlekelwa yizinto, nathi sizuza izinto.”

#11 - Zivumelanise Nesimo

Uma ubona ukuthi izethameli zakho ziphelelwa isithakazelo futhi ziyaphazamiseka, ingabe uzoqhubeka nakho konke njengoba uhlelile?

Kwesinye isikhathi ungakwenza futhi kufanele ukwenze ngendlela ehlukile, njengokuzama ukuxhumana kakhulu nesixuku ukuze uhlalise igumbi. 

Ungase ume ukuze ubuze imibuzo embalwa ukuze uthole isithakazelo esengeziwe ezilalelini futhi ubuyisele ukunaka kwazo kuwe nenkulumo yakho. Zama ukusebenzisa isofthiwe yokubonisana ukuze ubuze i umbuzo ovulekile, noma baphakamise izandla bese ubacela ukuthi baphendule ngokuphakamisa izandla.

Azikho izinto eziningi ongazenza ngaso leso sikhathi, ngakho-ke kukhona enye indlela esheshayo nelula, okuwukuzikhipha esiteji bese ujoyina isixuku emizuzwini embalwa.

Ngenhla amanye amathiphu amahle kakhulu okukhuluma esidlangalaleni angakusiza ukuthi ulungiselele ungekho esiteji futhi ukwenze ukuzethemba kukho. Manje, ake sicwile ekubhaleni inkulumo, ukuqala ngesingeniso!