Izinsuku zokuqala ziyathusa kakhulu. Ungena kulelo gumbi lemihlangano, futhi ngokuzumayo wonke umuntu ubheke kuwe. Ingqondo yakho iyaphela. Uthini? Uzizwa kanjani uqiniseka ngaphandle kokubonakala sengathi uprakthiza?
Sonke sike saba lapho. Izindaba ezinhle? Isingeniso esinamandla asidingi ukuphelela—ukulungiselela kanye nokwethembeka kuphela.
Kulesi siqondisi, sizokukhombisa ngqo indlela yokuzethula eqenjini elisha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlangana nozakwenu mathupha noma ujoyina nge-inthanethi. Uzothola izinhlaka eziqinisekisiwe, izibonelo zangempela, namathiphu awusizo okukusiza ukuthi wenze umbono omuhle wokuqala ngaphandle kokuxaka.
Kungani isingeniso sakho sibaluleke kakhulu kunalokho okucabangayo
Umbono wakho wokuqala awukona nje ukuba nenhlonipho—ubumba indlela ozakwenu ababona ngayo ikhono lakho, ukungeneka kwakho, kanye nokufaneleka kwakho eqenjini.
Ucwaningo oluvela ePrinceton University lubonisa ukuthi abantu bakha izahlulelo mayelana nokwethembeka kwakho kanye nekhono lakho ngaphakathi kwamasekhondi ambalwa kusukela uhlangane nawe. Nakuba ungakwazi ukulawula konke, ungalawula ukuthi ulungele kangakanani.
Isingeniso esicatshangelwe kahle siyakusiza:
- Yakha ukwethembeka futhi uzibonakalise njengochwepheshe
- Dala ukuxhumana okwenza ukubambisana kube lula
- Beka ithoni yobudlelwano bokusebenza besikhathi esizayo
- Nciphisa ukukhathazeka ngosuku lokuqala ngokuba nohlelo
Cabanga ngesingeniso sakho njengokuxhawulana kwakho kobungcweti—okufushane, okuqinisekile, nokukhumbulekayo.

Uhlaka olunezingxenye ezintathu zokuzethula
Izingeniso ezinhle kakhulu zilandela isakhiwo esilula esisebenza kunoma yisiphi isimo. Nakhu okufanele ukufake:
Ingxenye 1: Ungubani nokuthi wenzani
Qala ngegama lakho kanye nendima yakho. Lesi yisisekelo—esicacile nesicacile.
Isibonelo: "Sanibonani nonke, nginguMaria Chen, futhi ngisanda kujoyina njengomphathi omusha wokumaketha komkhiqizo."
Ingxenye 2: Isizinda noma ubuchwepheshe obufanele
Yabelana ngesipiliyoni esisodwa noma ezimbili ezibonisa ukuthi uyafaneleka ngaphandle kokuzwakala sengathi ufunda i-resume yakho.
Isibonelo: "Ngichithe iminyaka emine edlule enkampanini entsha ye-SaaS, lapho ngasiza khona ekuqaliseni imikhiqizo emithathu futhi ngakhulisa isisekelo sethu sabasebenzisi ngo-200%.
Ingxenye 3: Yini ekujabulisayo ngokuba lapha
Phetha ngendlela enhle ebonisa intshiseko nokuvuleleka ekubambisaneni.
Isibonelo: "Ngijabule kakhulu ukuletha lolo lwazi lapha futhi ngifunde kini nonke njengoba sisebenza ekuqalisweni komkhankaso omusha."
Le fomula ithatha cishe imizuzwana engama-30 ukuletha—kwanele nje ukwenza umbono ngaphandle kokubusa ingxoxo.
Isibonelo 1: Ukuzethula eqenjini lakho eliseduze (ngokwakho mathupha)
Isimo: Uhlangana nethimba lakho eliqondile okokuqala ngesikhathi somhlangano weqembu.
Isingeniso:
"Sanibonani nonke! Ngingu-Alex Rodriguez, umphathi we-akhawunti yenu entsha. Bengisebenza ezinkonzweni zamakhasimende cishe iminyaka eyisithupha, muva nje enkampanini yedijithali lapho ngiphatha khona ama-akhawunti amaklayenti ezobuchwepheshe. Ngiyazi ukuthi ukuguquka kungaba nzima, ngakho-ke ngilapha ukuzonisekela nokuqinisekisa ukuthi amaklayenti ethu ahlala ejabule phakathi nalolu shintsho. Ngilangazelela ukufunda ukuthi nonke nisebenza kanjani nokuthola izindlela zokwenza izinqubo zethu zibe ngcono nakakhulu. Ngicela uzizwe ukhululekile ukungithinta noma nini—ngilapha ukuzosiza."
Kungani lokhu kusebenza:
- Uqaphela ubudlelwano obukhona beqembu kanye nemisebenzi yokusebenza
- Ibonisa ukuqaphela ukuthi umuntu omusha ojoyinayo angadala ukungaqiniseki
- Ubeka u-Alex njengomuntu osebenzisana naye, hhayi njengophazamisayo
- Imema ukuxhumana ngaphandle kokuba semthethweni ngokweqile
Isiphakamiso sepro: Uma ujoyina iqembu elincane (abantu abangu-5-10), dala umbuzo ojabulisayo ngawe kanye nomsebenzi wefu lamagama ukuze ufunde amagama eqembu lakho usebenzisa ipulatifomu esebenzisana nayo efana I-AhaSlidesLokhu kudala ingxoxo ezinhlangothi zombili futhi kukusiza ukuthi uqale ukufunda amagama nezindima ngokushesha.

Isibonelo 2: Ukuzethula nge-imeyili eqenjini elikhulu
Isimo: Ujoyina inkampani enabantu abangaphezu kuka-50 emnyangweni wakho, futhi isingeniso mathupha asisebenzi.
Umugqa wesihloko: Isingeniso selungu elisha leqembu: [Igama Lakho]
I-imeyili:
Ithimba elihle,
Bengifuna ukuzethula njengoba ngiqala isonto lami lokuqala e-[Igama Lenkampani]. Igama lami nginguJordan Kim, futhi ngizojoyina ithimba lezokusebenza njengomxhumanisi omkhulu wezokusebenza.
Okuncane ngami: Ngichithe iminyaka emihlanu edlule ekuphathweni kwe-logistics kanye ne-supply chain, lapho ngigxile ekwenzeni ngcono izinqubo kanye nokuthuthukisa isikhathi sokulethwa kwezidingo. Ngijabule kakhulu ukuletha lolo lwazi lapha futhi ngifake isandla ekwenzeni imisebenzi yethu ibe lula ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngaphandle komsebenzi, ngingumuntu othanda kakhulu ikhofi (ngiyakwamukela ukuncoma!) futhi ngithanda ukuhamba ngezinyawo ngezimpelasonto.
Ngilangazelela ukuhlangana nawo wonke umuntu nokufunda okwengeziwe ngalokho osebenza kukho. Uma ungathanda ukuxhumana, zizwe ukhululekile ukuxhumana nami—ngingathanda ukuthatha ikhofi noma ukusetha ingxoxo emfushane.
Ngiyabonga ngokwamukelwa okufudumele kuze kube manje!
Okuhle kakhulu,
Jordan
Kungani lokhu kusebenza:
- Umugqa wesihloko ocacile wenza kube lula ukufaka nokubhekisela kuwo
- Ukulinganisela ubungcweti nobuntu
- Ubonisa ubuthakathaka kanye nokuvuleleka (ecela izincomo)
- Okuqondile ngendima kanye nesizinda ngaphandle kokwabelana ngokweqile
- Kufaka phakathi ukubizelwa okucacile kwesenzo sokulandelela
Isiphakamiso sepro: Thumela le imeyili ngosuku lwakho lwesibili noma lwesithathu, hhayi okokuqala. Lokhu kukunika isikhathi sokuhlangana nabantu abambalwa mathupha futhi kwenza i-imeyili yakho izwakale iyiqiniso futhi ingasafani nencwadi ebhalwe phansi.
Isibonelo 3: Ukuzethula eqenjini eliku-inthanethi
Isimo: Ujoyina ithimba elikude ngokuphelele futhi uhlangana nawo wonke umuntu ngevidiyo okokuqala ngqa.
Isingeniso:
"Sanibonani nonke! Kuhle kakhulu ukuhlangana nani nonke ekugcineni—nginguSam Patel, umklami omusha we-UX ojoyina iqembu lomkhiqizo. Bengilokhu ngiklama okuhlangenwe nakho kwedijithali cishe iminyaka eyisikhombisa, ikakhulukazi kwemikhiqizo ye-e-commerce kanye ne-fintech. Engikuthanda kakhulu nge-UX ukuthola indawo enhle lapho umsebenzisi edinga khona ukuhlangabezana nemigomo yebhizinisi.
Ngisebenza e-Austin, eTexas, ngakho-ke ngizosebenza e-Central Time. Ngaphandle komsebenzi, ngivame ukwenza amaphrojekthi angaphandle noma ukuhlola izitolo zekhofi ezintsha edolobheni.
Ngiyazi ukuthi ukusebenzisana kude kungathatha isikhathi ukujwayela, ngakho-ke ngilangazelela ukufunda ukuthi nonke nithanda ukusebenza ndawonye. Ngicela ungangabazi ukuxhumana nawe uma unemibuzo noma ufuna nje ukuxoxa. Ngilangazelela ukubambisana nani nonke!
Kungani lokhu kusebenza:
- Ikhuluma ngendawo yesikhathi (okubalulekile kumaqembu akude)
- Yabelana ngendawo ukuze kwakhiwe indawo enivumelana kuyo
- Iqaphela amandla okusebenza kude
- Imininingwane yomuntu siqu yenza uSam abe nobudlelwano nabantu abaningi
- Sula isimemo sokuxhuma
Isiphakamiso sepro: Vula ikhamera yakho bese uyibeka ezingeni lamehlo. Ukukhanya okuhle kanye nokuxhumana kwamehlo (ukubuka ikhamera, hhayi isithombe sakho) kwenza umehluko omkhulu endleleni obukeka ngayo. Mamatheka ngokwemvelo—kukusiza uzwakale unentshiseko, ngisho nakuvidiyo.
Izimfihlo zolimi lomzimba ezikhulisa isingeniso sakho
Amazwi akho abalulekile, kodwa ulimi lomzimba wakho lukhuluma lukhulu. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi u-55% wokuxhumana awukhulumi ngomlomo, ngakho-ke naka indlela oziveza ngayo ngokomzimba.
Amathiphu omuntu siqu:
- Yima uqonde, amahlombe akho angemuva—ukuma ngokuzethemba kukwenza ubonakale unekhono kakhudlwana
- Hlala uthintana emehlweni imizuzwana emi-3-5 nomuntu ngamunye
- Mamatheka ngobuqotho lapho uqala ukubheka emehlweni
- Nikeza ukuxhawulana okuqinile (hhayi ukuchoboza, hhayi ukuxega)
- Gcina izingalo zakho zingavulwanga ukuze zibonakale zivulekile futhi zingeneka kalula
Amathiphu omhlangano we-inthanethi:
- Beka ikhamera yakho ezingeni lamehlo
- Hlala uqonde bese ugoba kancane phambili ukuze ubonise ukuzibandakanya
- Bheka ikhamera uma ukhuluma, hhayi ubuso obusesikrinini
- Sebenzisa izimpawu zezandla ngokwemvelo—ziveza intshiseko
- Gwema ukuzulazula ngezinto ezandleni zakho
Cabanga ngolimi lomzimba wakho njengohlaka lwesingeniso sakho. Uhlaka olufanele lwenza konke okungaphakathi kwalo kubukeke kangcono.
Okufanele ukwenze ngemva kokwethulwa kwakho
Isingeniso sakho simane nje siyisiqalo. Umsebenzi wangempela wokwakha ubudlelwano wenzeka emahoreni nasezinsukwini ezilandelayo.
Buza imibuzo enengqondo
Ngemva kokuzethula, bonisa isithakazelo sangempela kwabanye. Buza imibuzo efana nale:
- "Yimuphi umsebenzi othakazelisa kakhulu osebenza kuwo njengamanje?"
- "Usunesikhathi esingakanani usebenza nale nkampani?"
- "Yini oyijabulela kakhulu ngokusebenza lapha?"
Abantu bayakuthanda ukukhuluma ngabo, futhi ukulalela ngokucophelela kukusiza ukwakha ubuhlobo ngokushesha.
Landela ngamunye
Thumela umlayezo osheshayo noma i-imeyili kubantu okhulume nabo:
"Sawubona [Name], bekumnandi ukuhlangana nawe ngaphambilini! Ngingathanda ukufunda kabanzi mayelana [nephrojekthi ethile abayishilo]. Ingabe unemizuzu eyi-15 kuleli sonto yokuxoxa ikhofi ngokushesha?"
Lokhu kubonisa isinyathelo sokuqala kanye nesithakazelo sangempela, futhi kukunikeza indlela yemvelo yokujulisa ukuxhumana.
Qaphela ngaphambi kokuthi unikele
Esontweni lakho lokuqala noma amabili, gxila ekulaleleni nasekufundeni. Naka lokhu:
- Indlela abantu abaxhumana ngayo (ama-imeyili asemthethweni vs imiyalezo ye-Slack evamile)
- Imihlangano eguquguqukayo nokuthi ubani ovame ukuhola izingxoxo
- Imithetho engabhalwanga mayelana namahora okusebenza, ukuphendula, kanye nokubambisana
Ukuqonda isiko kukusiza ukuthi uvumelanise isitayela sakho sokusebenza ukuze sivumelane neqembu.
Amaphutha ajwayelekile okufanele uwagweme
Ngisho noma kunezinhloso ezinhle kakhulu, ezinye izindlela zokwethula zingaba nemiphumela emibi. Nakhu okufanele ukugweme:
1. Ukwabelana ngolwazi lomuntu siqu
Yeqa izindaba ezijulile zomuntu siqu. Isehlukaniso sakho, izinkinga zempilo, noma idrama yomndeni akuzona izihloko ezifanele zosuku lokuqala. Gcina lokhu kuyimfihlo ngokuthinta komuntu siqu okulula.
2. Umsindo obhaliwe noma obhaliwe ngerobhothi
Ukukhumbula isingeniso sakho igama negama kungakwenza uzwakale uqinile. Kunalokho, khumbula amaphuzu abalulekile bese uvumela amagama ageleze ngokwemvelo.
3. Ukukhuluma isikhathi eside kakhulu
Uma isingeniso sakho sithatha isikhathi esingaphezu kwemizuzwana engama-60, ulahlekelwe ukunaka kwabantu. Gcina kufushane—kuzoba nesikhathi sokwabelana okwengeziwe njengoba ujwayelana nozakwenu.
4. Ukuhlambalaza noma ukuqhosha
Ukukhuluma ngempumelelo emangalisayo kulungile, kodwa ukuyibeka njengendlela yokusiza iqembu (hhayi ukulihlaba umxhwele) kwenza umehluko omkhulu.
Akulungile: "Ngiwine imiklomelo emithathu embonini enkampanini yami yokugcina."
Kwesokudla: "Ngiqalise imikhankaso eyathola ukuqashelwa embonini, futhi ngiyajabula ukuletha lawo maqhinga lapha."
5. Ukukhohlwa amagama ngokushesha
Uma othile ezethula, phinda igama lakhe: "Kuhle ukukwazi, Rachel." Lokhu kusiza ekuqiniseni inkumbulo yakho futhi kubonise ukuthi uyanaka.
Ukwenza izethulo eziku-inthanethi zizizwe zingakhululekile
Umsebenzi wokude unezela izinselele ezihlukile ezethulweni. Awukwazi ukufunda igumbi kalula, futhi izinkinga zobuchwepheshe zingabulala umfutho. Nansi indlela yokwenza izethulo ezingokoqobo zibe lula:
Hlela izingxoxo zekhofi zomuntu ngamunye
Cela izingxoxo zekhofi ezisebenza nge-inthanethi zemizuzu eyi-15 nabalingani ababalulekile. Lezi zingxoxo ezingakahleleki zikusiza ukuthi wakhe ubudlelwano ngokushesha kunemihlangano emikhulu yamaqembu.
Sebenzisa ividiyo noma nini lapho kungenzeka
Uma amakhamera evaliwe kuzwakala sengathi akunabo ubuntu. Ukubona ubuso kusiza ekwakheni ukwethembana futhi kwenza izingxoxo zizizwe zinobuntu.
Thumela isethulo sakho ku-Slack noma ku-Teams
Thumela isingeniso esinobungane esiteshini sokuxhumana sethimba lakho kanye nesithombe. Faka:
- Igama nendima yakho
- Umusho owodwa mayelana nesizinda sakho
- Iqiniso elijabulisayo noma umdlalo wokuzilibazisa
- Isikhathi sakho sendawo (samaqembu akude)
Isibonelo:
"Sawubona thimba! 👋 NginguJulia Santos, uchwepheshe wezinhlelo zenu ezintsha zokuqukethwe. Ngichithe iminyaka eyisithupha edlule ngidala okuqukethwe kwemikhiqizo yezempilo. Uma ngingabhali, ngivame ukuba sekilasini le-yoga noma ngizama izindlela zokupheka ezintsha (ngemiphumela exubile 😄). NgisePacific Time, kodwa ngiyajabula ukuvakashela izingcingo eziya ezindaweni zesikhathi. Ngijabule kakhulu ukusebenza nani nonke!"
Bamba iqhaza ngenkuthalo eziteshini zeqembu
Ungagcini nje ngokucasha. Buza imibuzo, wabelane ngemibono, futhi uphendule imiyalezo. Ukuzibandakanya njalo kukusiza ukuba ube yilungu leqembu "langempela" ngokushesha.

Isiphetho sendaba
Ukuzethula eqenjini elisha akudingeki kube yinto ekucindezelayo. Ngokulungiselela okufanele—isakhiwo esicacile, intshiseko yangempela, kanye nokunaka ulimi lomzimba—ungenza umbono wokuqala onamandla obeka isisekelo sobudlelwano obuhle bokusebenza.
Khumbula:
- Gcina isingeniso sakho singaphansi kwemizuzwana engama-60
- Yabelana ngesizinda esifanele ngaphandle kokuzwakala njenge-resume
- Bonisa intshiseko yokubambisana
- Landela ngezingxoxo zomuntu ngamunye
- Lalela okungaphezu kokukhuluma ngesonto lakho lokuqala
Usuku lwakho lokuqala luyisiqalo nje. Ubudlelwano obakhayo kulawo masonto okuqala buzokwakha ulwazi lwakho ezinyangeni ezizayo, ngakho-ke chitha umzamo wokuxhumana nozakwenu ngempela.
Manje phuma lapho bese ufinyelela esingenisweni!
