Iyiphi indlela engcono yokuletha okuthile okunesibindi etafuleni futhi uthole imibono yangempela yabanye abantu ngawe?
Uma kukhulunywa ngemidlalo yephathi esime isikhathi eside, akuwona amaningi angakwazi ukufanisa isasasa lakudala okungenzeka kakhulu imibuzo. Lona umsebenzi wokuhlanganisa osuyinsakavukela umchilo wesidwaba emibuthanweni, emaphathini nasemibuthanweni. Lokhu kwedlule izizukulwane, okuletha izingxoxo ezimnandi nezilula futhi kuvala igebe phakathi kokuhleka nokwambulelwa. Ngakho-ke, sijoyine njengoba sizongena emhlabeni wemibuzo okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ubuze ngayo, sihlole ukuguquguquka, kungani kusebenza, futhi siphakamise imibuzo eyisampula ehehayo, ethokozisayo.
Okuqukethwe
I-Game Dynamics
Ubulula busenhliziyweni yalo mdlalo. Abadlali bayashintshana ngokubuza imibuzo eqala ngokuthi “Ubani okungenzeka ukuthi…?” futhi iqembu lihlangene likhomba lowo olingana nomthethosivivinywa. Le mibuzo ingaba yinto evamile kuya ehlekisayo kakhulu futhi enonya, okungenzeka idalule amaqiniso kanye nezici ezingalindelekile zomdlali ngamunye.
Ungathenga isethi esenziwe ngomumo yamakhadi anazo zonke izimo ezingaba khona, kodwa isikhathi esiningi abantu bazama ukwenza awabo. Umhleli anganikeza umdlali ngamunye ipeni nephepha futhi abacele ukuthi beze nezimo eziningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Uma kwenzeka udinga ugqozi oluthile, ungakhathazeki, sinezinhlobonhlobo zemibuzo oyisampula yakho kamuva kubhulogi.
Kungani kungenzeka ukuthi imibuzo eminingi isebenze?
- Iqhwa-Ukuphuka umdlalo: Ngaphandle kwalokho "Iqiniso noma linga" futhi "2 amaqiniso 1 amanga", "Okungenzeka kakhulu" imibuzo isebenza njengephuzu elihle kakhulu leqhwa, futhi kuzoba mnandi kakhulu eqenjini elikhulu eliyingxube yabantu abazana kahle nabasanda kuhlanganyela abambalwa. Uma uyidlala nabantu ongabazi, ngokungangabazeki izokuvumela ukuba wazi othile ngokushesha. Kukhona okuthile okujabulisa kakhulu futhi okuhlekisayo lapho unquma ukuthi othile “kungenzeka abe yigebengu” ngenxa nje yokubona kuqala akunikeza kona.
- Izambulo nezimangaliso: Umdlalo uveza izici ezingalindelekile zobuntu babantu futhi uvule umnyango wokuthi abanye abantu bakubheka kanjani namandla akho. Abadlali bangakwazi ukubona abangani babo nomndeni ngendlela entsha, babaqonde kakhudlwana futhi bathole okuthakazelisayo okutholakele njengoba izindaba ziqhubeka.
- Izikhathi ezikhumbulekayo: Injabulo eyabiwe kanye nezikhathi ezikhumbulekayo uma unalo mdlalo kuzodala isibopho esiqinile phakathi kwakho nabangani bakho abaseduze noma obathandayo. Zilungiselele ukubuka igumbi lishisa ngokuhleka nokumomotheka njengoba udlala lo mdlalo wakudala.
Ngalokho, sihlanganise imibuzo emihle, eyembula kakhulu ukuze sikunonge wena neqembu lakho lomndeni noma abangani.
Okungcono kakhulu okungenzeka kube nemibuzo yabangane
- Ubani ongase aqale adakwe kuqala emcimbini?
- Ubani ongase aphuce ikhanda ngenxa yesithukuthezi?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi aqhube ibhizinisi elingekho emthethweni?
- Ubani okungenzeka ukuthi adume kakhulu?
- Ubani ojwayele ukuya kumuntu abamthola ekhanga ephathini?
- Ubani ongase abaleke aye kwelinye izwe unyaka wonke?
- Obani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi bashintshe indlela yabo yomsebenzi?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlangane nabalingani babo ngokungahleliwe emgwaqeni?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuba ne-one night stand?
- Ubani ongase ayeke inyuvesi?
- Ubani ongase aziphoxe kakhulu emphakathini?
- Ubani ongase abe umgulukudu?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuba abe nezilwane ezisengozini yokushabalala?
- Ubani ongase aqabule futhi amtshele?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi athandane ne-ex yomngane wabo omkhulu?
Okuhle kakhulu okungenzeka kube nemibuzo yabashadikazi
- Ubani ongase aqale ukulwa?
- Ubani ongase akhohlwe kakhulu usuku lokugubha usuku?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele uhambo lokuya eholidini?
- Ubani ongase abhakele othandekayo wakhe ikhekhe ngaphandle kwesizathu?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukukopela?
- Ubani ongase akhumbule imininingwane yosuku lokuqala?
- Ubani ongase akhohlwe kakhulu usuku lokuzalwa lomlingani wakhe?
- Ubani ongase akwazi ukuncoma kakhulu umgunyathi?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuphakamisa?
- Ubani ongase athandwe kakhulu umndeni womlingani wakhe?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi alale ebusuku?
- Ubani ongase ahlole ifoni yomlingani wakhe?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlanze indlu ekuseni ngempelasonto?
- Ubani ongase alungiselele ukudla kwasekuseni embhedeni?
- Ubani ongase ahlole njalo ama-akhawunti wabo wenkundla yezokuxhumana?
Okungcono kakhulu okunemibuzo yomndeni
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi avuke ekuseni kakhulu?
- Ubani ongase abe umlingisi womndeni / usomahlaya?
- Ubani umnduze omningi ongahlela uhambo lwempelasonto yomndeni?
- Ubani ongase aqale ukulwa ngesikhathi sokudla komndeni?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele ubusuku begeyimu yomndeni?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi awine umncintiswano womdlalo?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi azi amagama azo zonke izingoma ze-ABBA?
- Ubani ongase alahleke kakhulu edolobheni?
- Ubani ongase alambe usuku lonke ngoba engafuni ukupheka?
- Ubani ovame ukunyonyoba ebusuku?
- Ubani ongase abe usaziwayo?
- Ubani ongase abe nezinwele ezimbi kakhulu?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ajoyine ihlelo?
- Ubani ongase achame eshaweni?
- Ubani ongase angcolise indlu yonke ngosuku?
Okungcono kakhulu imibuzo yomsebenzi
- Ubani ongase abe yi-CEO?
- Ubani osemathubeni amaningi okujola nozakwenu?
- Ubani ongase abe usozigidi?
- Ubani ongase athole iphromoshini?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele umsebenzi wokwakha iqembu?
- Ubani okungenzeka ukuthi ashaye umphathi wabo?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi athathe i-sickie aye eholidini?
- Ubani ongase ayeke umsebenzi ngaphandle kokuvalelisa?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi awine ngobusuku bemibuzo?
- Obani okungenzeka ukuthi baqale amabhizinisi abo?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi acekele phansi ilaptop yenkampani yabo?
- Ubani ongase ahlehlise kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina?
- Ubani ongase aphuthelwe izikhathi zokugcina?
- Ubani ovame ukuqamba izingane zabo ngozakwabo?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele iqembu lonke ukubaleka?
imibuzo ejwayelekile ukubuzwa
Yini izi Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu imibuzo?
Imibuzo ethi “Ubani ongase abe” imibuzo noma imibuzo ethi “Amathuba amaningi okuthi” ivame ukusetshenziswa ngesikhathi somphakathi, izinhlangano kanye nemibuthano ukuze utshele wonke umuntu ukuthi avote ngokuthi ubani phakathi kwabo “ongase” enze isenzo esithile. Lona umdlalo wakudala kodwa olula wokuhlanganisa nezinkumbulo ezabiwe.
Yini izi Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu imibuzo kwabashadile?
Imibuzo ethi "Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu" ilungele imibhangqwana ukuthi ihlanganyele futhi iveze umbono wabo ngababathandayo. Eminye yemibuzo eyisampula:
- Ubani ongase aqale ukulwa?
- Ubani ongase akhohlwe kakhulu usuku lokugubha usuku?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele uhambo lokuya eholidini?
- Ubani ongase abhakele othandekayo wakhe ikhekhe ngaphandle kwesizathu?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukukopela?
- Ubani ongase akhumbule imininingwane yosuku lokuqala?
Who kungenzeka kakhulu imibuzo emndenini?
Imibuzo ethi “Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu” ingasetshenziswa emibuthanweni yomndeni ukuze kube nezingxoxo ezilula, ezivusa izinkulumo-mpikiswano kanye nezambulo ezijabulisayo. Eminye yemibuzo eyisampula:
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi avuke ekuseni kakhulu?
- Ubani ongase abe umlingisi womndeni / usomahlaya?
- Ubani umnduze omningi ongahlela uhambo lwempelasonto yomndeni?
- Ubani ongase aqale ukulwa ngesikhathi sokudla komndeni?
- Ubani okungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ahlele ubusuku begeyimu yomndeni?
