Ithini eyakho ulwimi lomzimba ngexesha lokubonisa ndithini ngawe? Sonke sinamaxesha apho singazi ukuba senze ntoni ngezandla zethu, imilenze, okanye naliphi na ilungu lomzimba wethu ngexesha lokunikezela.
Unokuba nento emangalisayo inqanawa eqhekezayo, ayinakubakho isingeniso, nomboniso ogqwesileyo, kodwa unikezelo kulapho lubaluleke khona. Awazi ukuba wenze ntoni ngawe, kwaye igqibelele eqhelekileyo.
Kweli nqaku, siza kukuhamba ngeengcebiso ezili-10 zokusebenzisa ulwimi lomzimba ngexesha lenkcazo ukuze ungathumeli kuphela imiqondiso efanelekileyo kodwa uzive ungcono ngawe.
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Bamba ingqalelo kwasekuqaleni
Hambisa abaphulaphuli bakho nge-ice-breaking poll ezisebenzayo kunye namafu amagama. Bhalisa ukuze ubambe iitemplates zasimahla.
Isiqulatho
Kutheni Ulwimi Lomzimba Wakho Ngexesha LeNgxelo ibalulekile
Umzimba wakho ufana nencoko ethuleyo onayo naye wonke umntu okungqongileyo. Phambi kokuba uvule umlomo wakho, abantu sele becholachola imiqondiso malunga nokuba uzithembile na, unoloyiko, unobuhlobo, okanye uvaliwe.
Ngoku ka uphando nguAlbert Mehrabian, xa uhambisa umyalezo malunga neemvakalelo okanye izimo zengqondo:
- I-55% yempembelelo ivela kulwimi lomzimba kunye nembonakalo yobuso
- I-38% ivela kwithoni yezwi kunye nokuhanjiswa
- Yi-7% kuphela ephuma kumagama okwenene athethiweyo
Ulwimi lomzimba wakho luhlala lubalisa ibali. Inokwenza ukuba ibe yinto entle, akunjalo?
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Qwalasela iNkangeleko Yakho
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukujonga ukucoceka ngexesha leenkcazo-ntetho. Kuxhomekeka kweso sihlandlo, kusenokufuneka ulungiselele isinxibo esifanelekileyo neenwele ezilungiswe kakuhle ukuze ubonise ubugcisa nentlonelo yakho kubaphulaphuli bakho.
Cinga ngohlobo nesimbo somsitho; basenokuba nemigaqo engqongqo yokunxiba. Khetha isinxibo ekunokwenzeka ukuba uzive uzolile kwaye uzithembile phambi kwabaphulaphuli. Yiphephe imibala, izincedisi, okanye ubucwebe obunokuphazamisa abaphulaphuli, yenze ingxolo, okanye bubangele ilitha phantsi kwezibane zaseqongeni.
Ncuma, kwaye Ncuma Kwakhona
Ungalibali “ukuncuma ngamehlo” kunomlomo wakho xa uncuma. Kuya kunceda ukwenza abanye bave ubushushu bakho kunye nokunyaniseka kwakho. Khumbula ukugcina uncumo nasemva kokudibana-kwiindibano zolonwabo zobuxoki; usenokubona uncumo oluthi “on-off” oludanyazayo luze lunyamalale ngokukhawuleza emva kokuba abantu ababini beye kwicala labo elahlukileyo.
Vula iiPalms zakho
Xa ubonisa izandla zakho, qiniseka ukuba izandla zakho zivulekile ixesha elininzi, kwaye abantu banokubona iintende zakho ezivulekileyo. Kukwangumbono olungileyo ukugcina iintende zijonge phezulu kunokuba zijonge ezantsi ixesha elininzi.
Yenza uQhakamshelwano lwamehlo
Kudla ngokuba luluvo olubi ukujongana ngamehlo namalungu abaphulaphuli bakho! Ukufumana indawo emnandi "ixesha elide ngokwaneleyo" ukujonga abaphulaphuli bakho ngaphandle kokukhubekisa okanye ukucaphukisa kuyimfuneko. Zama ukujonga abanye malunga nemizuzwana emi-2 ukuze unciphise ukungakhululeki kunye novalo. Sukujonga amanqaku akho ukwenza unxibelelwano ngakumbi nabaphulaphuli bakho.
Ukubambana ngesandla
Unokufumana ezi zijekulo ziluncedo xa ufuna ukuqukumbela intlanganiso okanye ukuphelisa unxibelelwano nomntu. Ukuba ufuna ukubonakala uzithembile, ungasebenzisa le cue izithupha zakho zithe nca-oku kubonisa ukuzithemba endaweni yoxinzelelo.
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Kuyathandeka ukuphumza izandla zakho ezipokothweni zakho kanye ngexesha ukufutshane nabahlobo abasondeleyo kwaye ubathembile abanye. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukwenza omnye umntu azive engakhuselekanga, ukufaka izandla nzulu epokothweni yindlela eqinisekileyo yokwenza oko!
Indlebe echukumisayo
Ukuchukumisa indlebe okanye isenzo sokuzithoba ngokuzenzekelayo kwenzeka xa umntu exhalabile. Kodwa ngaba uyazi ukuba luncedo olulungileyo xa udibana nemibuzo enzima evela kubaphulaphuli? Ukuchukumisa indlebe yakho xa ucinga ngezisombululo kunokukwenza ukuba imeko yakho iyonke ibe yendalo.
Sukukhomba uMnwe Wakho
Nantoni na oyenzayo, musa ukukhomba. Qiniseka nje ukuba awusoze uyenze. Ukukhomba ngomnwe ngelixa uthetha kuyinto engathandekiyo kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, kungekhona kwiintetho kuphela. Abantu basoloko beyifumana inomsindo, ingonwabanga kwaye ikhubekisa.
Lawula Ilizwi lakho
Kuyo nayiphi na inkcazo-ntetho, thetha ngokucothayo nangokucacileyo. Xa ufuna ukukrwelela iingongoma eziziintloko, usenokucotha ngakumbi uze uziphindaphinde. Intonation iyimfuneko; vumela ilizwi lakho liphakame kwaye liwe ukuze livakale ngokwendalo. Ngamanye amaxesha, ungatsho nto okwethutyana ukuphucula unxibelelwano.
Ukuhamba-hamba
Ukujikeleza okanye ukuhlala kwindawo enye xa ubonisa kulungile. Ukanti, musa ukuyisebenzisa ngokugqithisileyo; kuphephe ukuhamba usiya emva naphambili ngalo lonke ixesha. Hamba xa ujonge ukubandakanya abaphulaphuli ngelixa ubalisa ibali elihlekisayo okanye ngelixa abaphulaphuli behleka.
Iingcebiso ezi-4 zesimbo somzimba
Ngoku, makhe sijonge iingcebiso ezikhawulezayo malunga nolwimi lomzimba kunye nendlela yokuphuhlisa izakhono zakho zokubonisa malunga:
- Uqhagamshelo lamehlo
- Izandla namaGxa
- Amagxa
- Umva kunye neNtloko
Amehlo
Musa kuphephe ukudibana kwamehlo ngokungathi sisibetho. Abantu abaninzi abazi ukuba bajongane njani ngamehlo kwaye bafundiswa ukujonga kudonga olungasemva okanye ibunzi lomntu. Abantu banokubona xa ungabajongi kwaye baya kukubona unovalo kwaye ukude. Ndandingomnye wabo babesasazi kuba ndandicinga ukuba ukuthetha esidlangalaleni kuyafana nokudlala.
Xa ndandisenza imiboniso yethiyetha kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, basikhuthaza ukuba sijonge eludongeni olungasemva kwaye singazibandakanyi nabaphulaphuli kuba oko kuya kubakhupha kweli lizwe lamaphupha silidalayo. Ndafunda kabuhlungu ukuba ukwenza izinto akufani nokuthetha esidlangalaleni. Kukho imiba efanayo, kodwa awufuni ukubathintela abaphulaphuli kwinkcazo-ntetho yakho - ufuna ukubabandakanya, kutheni ke ungenza ngathi abekho?
Kwelinye icala, abanye abantu bafundiswa ukuba bajonge nje umntu omnye ongumkhwa ombi. Ukujonga umntu omnye ngalo lonke ixesha kuya kubenza bangakhululeki kwaye lo moya uya kubaphazamisa namanye amalungu abaphulaphuli.
DO nxibelelana nabantu njengoko ubuya kwenza incoko eqhelekileyo. Ulindele njani ukuba abantu bafune ukuzibandakanya nawe ukuba abaziva babonwa? Esinye sezakhono eziluncedo zokubonisa ndifunde kuzo UNicole Dieker kukuba abantu bathanda ingqalelo! Thatha ixesha lokunxibelelana nabaphulaphuli bakho. Xa abantu bevakalelwa kukuba umsasazi ubakhathalele, baziva bebalulekile kwaye bekhuthazwa ukuba babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo. Shifta ugxininiso lwakho kumalungu abaphulaphuli ahlukeneyo ukuze ukhuthaze indawo ebandakanyayo. Zibandakanye ngakumbi nabo sele bekujongile. Akukho nto imbi kunokuba ujonge phantsi umntu ojonge ifowuni yakhe okanye inkqubo.
Sebenzisa ukujongana ngamehlo njengoko ubuya kwenza xa uthetha nomhlobo. Ukuthetha esidlangalaleni kuyafana, kwinqanaba elikhulu ngakumbi nangabantu abaninzi.
Hands
Musa ukuzibekela imiqathango okanye uyicinge kakhulu. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokubamba izandla zakho ngokungalunganga, njengasemva komqolo wakho (ophuma njengobudlova kwaye usesikweni), ngaphantsi kwebhanti lakho (intshukumo yokunciphisa), okanye uqina emacaleni akho (oziva unzima). Musa ukuwela iingalo zakho; oku kuvela njengento ekhuselayo kwaye ekude. Okona kubalulekileyo, musa ukugqithisela ngesijekulo! Oku akuyi kudinisa kuphela, kodwa abaphulaphuli baya kuqala ukulungisa indlela ekufuneka udinwe ngayo kunomxholo wenkcazo-ntetho yakho. Yenza intetho yakho ibe lula ukuyibukela, kwaye, ke, ibelula ukuyiqonda.
DO phumla izandla zakho kwindawo engathathi hlangothi. Oku kuya kuba ngentla kweqhosha lesisu sakho. Esona sikhundla siphumeleleyo sijonge ukungathathi hlangothi kukubamba isandla esinye kwesinye okanye ukubabamba nje kunye nangayiphi na indlela izandla zakho ezinokuthi zenzeke ngayo. Izandla, iingalo kunye namagxa zezona mpawu zibalulekileyo ezibonakalayo kubaphulaphuli. Wena kufanele Izijekulo njengolwimi lwakho lomzimba oluqhelekileyo kwincoko eqhelekileyo. Musa ukuba irobhothi!
Amagxa
Musa tshixa imilenze yakho ume ngxi. Ayinabungozi nje kuphela, kodwa ikwenza ubukeke ungakhululekanga (ukwenza abaphulaphuli bangakhululeki). Kwaye akukho mntu uthanda ukuziva engakhululekanga! Igazi liya kuqalisa ukuhlanganisana emilenzeni yakho, kwaye ngaphandle kokunyakaza, igazi liya kuba nobunzima bokubuyela entliziyweni. Oku kukwenza ube sesichengeni sokufelwa, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba… uqikelele ukuba… nga phu. Ngokuchasene noko, musa ukuhambisa imilenze yakho kakhulu. Ndikhe ndaya kwimiboniso embalwa apho isithethi sishukuma sibheka ngapha nangapha, emva naphambili, yaye ndiye ndanikela ingqalelo kakhulu kwesi senzo siphazamisayo kangangokuba ndade ndalibala ukuba besithetha ngantoni!
DO sebenzisa imilenze yakho njengokwandiswa kwezijekulo zesandla sakho. Thatha inyathelo eliya phambili ukuba ufuna ukwenza intetho edibanisa nabaphulaphuli bakho. Thatha inyathelo emva ukuba ufuna ukunika isithuba sokucinga emva kombono omangalisayo. Kukho ulungelelwano kuyo yonke into. Cinga ngeqonga njengenqwelomoya enye - akufuneki ubafulathele abaphulaphuli. Hamba ngendlela ebandakanya bonke abantu abasesithubeni kwaye ujikeleze ukuze ubonakale kuzo zonke izihlalo.
umva
Musa zisonge kuwe ngamagxa awileyo, intloko egobileyo, nentamo egobileyo. Abantu banokuthambekela okungaphantsi kolu hlobo lolwimi lomzimba kwaye baya kuqala ukubuza amandla akho njengombonisi ukuba wenza iprojekthi njengesithethi esizikhuselayo, esizoyikisayo, nesingazithembiyo. Nokuba awuzichazi ezi zichazi, umzimba wakho uya kubonisa.
DO baqiniseke ngokuzithemba kwakho malunga nomgangatho wakho. Yima nkqo njengentloko yakho edibeneyo ngentambo efundisiweyo edityaniswe kwisilingi. Ukuba ulwimi lomzimba wakho lubonisa ukuzithemba, uya kuzithemba. Uya kumangaliswa yindlela uhlengahlengiso oluncinci olunokuthi luphucule ngayo okanye uyenze ibe mbi intetho yakho. Zama ukusebenzisa ezi zakhono zokubonisa esipilini kwaye uzibonele!
Okokugqibela, ukuba unentembelo kwintetho yakho, ulwimi lwakho lomzimba luya kuphucula kakhulu. Umzimba wakho uya kubonisa indlela ozingca ngayo ngemibono yakho kunye nokulungela kwakho. AhaSlides sisixhobo esikhulu ukusebenzisa ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumsasazi ozithembileyo kwaye WWU abaphulaphuli bakho ngezixhobo zexesha lokwenyani ezinokufikelela ngelixa ubonisa. Eyona nxalenye? Yeyazimahla!
Imibuzo ebuzwa qho
Yintoni onokuyenza ngezandla zakho xa unikezela?
Xa unikezela, kubalulekile ukusebenzisa izandla zakho ngenjongo ukwenza umbono olungileyo kwaye uphucule umyalezo wakho. Ngoko ke, izandla zakho zifanele ziphumle xa zivuliwe, sebenzisa izimbo zomzimba ukuze kungenelwe intshumayelo yakho kwaye ugcine ujonge abaphulaphuli bakho.
Zeziphi izimbo zomzimba ezifanele ziphetshwe kwintetho?
Kuya kufuneka uphephe izijekulo zokuphazamiseka, njengoku: ukuthetha ngokumangalisayo kodwa kungahambelani nemixholo yakho; ukuphutha-phutha njengokucofa iminwe yakho okanye ukudlala ngezinto; ukukhomba ngeminwe (ebonisa ukungabi nambeko); ukuwela iingalo kunye nezijekulo ezisesikweni ngokumangalisayo nezisesikweni!
