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100+ Perfect Questions to Ask Your Crush | + Quiz to Know Them Better

100+ Perfect Questions to Ask Your Crush | + Quiz to Know Them Better

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Leah Nguyen 18 Sep 2023 7 min read

๐Ÿ’— Looking to make a romantic connection but not sure where to start with your crush?

๐Ÿ’– Wondering how to kick things up a notch and really get to know them on a deeper level?

Let us smoothen out your “talking phase” with this master list of questions to ask your crush – guaranteed to spark butterflies and make your hearts flutter.

Whether it’s a deep late-night convo over texts, quirky questions to impress your crush, or even a quiz to roll out to them, we’ve got ’em all. Dive in!

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Good Questions To Ask Your Crush Quiz

Questions to ask your crush
Questions to ask your crush

Send your crush this quiz to know if he’s a real match with your interests and hobbies, green flag or red flag:

#1. What’s your idea of a perfect first date?

  • Picnic in the park
  • Hike with views
  • Dinner and a movie
  • Arcade games or bowling

#2. What kind of music gets you?

  • Soft rock
  • R&B
  • Indie
  • Hip-hop
  • Alternatives

#3. If you were characters in a movie, what genre would it be?

  • Romance
  • Comedy
  • Action adventure
  • Drama
  • Sci-fi
  • Horror

#4. What’s your favourite way to spend a cosy night in?

  • Playing games
  • Binging a show
  • Clubbing
  • Reading books
  • Building something
  • Going out with friends for dinner
  • Cooking

#5. On a scale of 1 to 5, how secretive are you?

  • I have many secrets
  • Not really
  • A little
  • Not at all, I’m transparent

#6. Will you care if your partner makes more money than you?

  • No, I won’t mind
  • A little bit
  • Neutral
  • I do care
  • It would bother me a lot

#7. Would you check out your partner’s text message apps while in a relationship?

  • Yes
  • No

#8. Do you mind if your partner hangs out with friends until late at night?

  • Yes
  • No

#9. What’s your first reaction when you see a cute animal?

  • I don’t care much
  • Neutral
  • I’d pet them

#10. If you and your friend are in a conflict, how would you react?

  • Cut ties with them
  • Wait until your friend apologises first
  • Apologise, but won’t be happy about it
  • Talk with them to find a solution

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Questions to ask your crush

Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush

Questions to ask your crush
Questions to ask your crush

Everyone wants to sniff in your crush’s love life and interests. These love questions will satisfy the most curious minds:

  1. On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your flirting skills?
  2. What’s your favourite way to express affection – with words, physical touch or gestures?
  3. What’s your ideal first date – something lowkey like coffee or more adventurous like an amusement park?
  4. What kind of kiss do you prefer – sweet pecks or Frenchies?
  5. What song best describes your view of a perfect romance?
  6. If I asked you out, what would be your dream date night?
  7. Boxers or briefs? What’s your preferred style? ๐Ÿ˜‰
  8. Do you believe in love at first sight or think it takes time to really fall?
  9. What’s something you’re looking for in a potential partner right now?
  10. Do you like it if a girl flirts with you?
  11. What’s the best or worst first date you’ve ever been on?
  12. What’s your type?
  13. What’s your biggest turn-on?
  14. What’s your biggest turn-off?
  15. Do you consider yourself a good kisser?
  16. What’d you do if you have a crush on someone?
  17. How can you be so attractive?
  18. What do you think you look sexiest in?
  19. What’s one thing that you consider hot if someone does it?
  20. What’s the perfect way to ask someone out?
  21. Favourite pick-up line?
  22. What are 3 things you think we have in common?
  23. What is something about you that would surprise me?
  24. What’s one question you want to ask me?
  25. Would you rather date someone smart than hot?

Love Questions to Ask Your Crush

Questions to ask your crush
Questions to ask your crush
  1. What is your ideal vision of true love?
  2. What qualities do you look for in a partner?
  3. What is your favourite thing about being in a relationship?
  4. What is your definition of happiness?
  5. What is the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for you?
  6. How do you show your affection for others?
  7. What is your favourite love song or poem? Why does it resonate with you?
  8. What is your favourite thing to receive as a gift from someone special?
  9. What is the most caring or selfless thing youโ€™ve done for someone you love?
  10. How do you like to feel loved and appreciated in a relationship?
  11. What is your favourite thing to do for fun with a significant other?
  12. How do you cope with vulnerability in relationships?
  13. What is your favourite memory involving love or affection?
  14. How important is physical affection in a relationship to you?
  15. What do you value most in a partner – humour, intelligence, kindness, looks, etc. and why?
  16. If you could choose any era to live in besides your own, which would you pick and why?
  17. What’s one place you feel most at peace? What makes it so special to you?
  18. What’s one quirk or unique talent you have that you love about yourself?
  19. What’s your most repeated word or phrase when you’re happy/excited/content?
  20. If you could have any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it?
  21. What’s a random sample of your Spotify favourites playlist right now?
  22. What’s one thing you’re eagerly looking forward to in your life right now?
  23. If you could pause time for an hour each day, what would you do with your time-freeze hours?
  24. What’s something you’ve learned about yourself recently that you’re still processing?
  25. What does true passion look like to you in a person?

Deep Questions to Ask Your Crush

Questions to ask your crush
Questions to ask your crush

If you are looking to strike deeper meaningful conversations that make both talk past midnight, here are a few for you:

  1. What helps you to feel better when you have a bad day?
  2. What’s your favourite thing when you’re in a relationship?
  3. How do you view failure?
  4. What’s something you want people to know about you that they may not assume?
  5. Have you read anything recently that changed your perspective?
  6. Do you believe in conspiracy theory?
  7. What do you have the most fun doing?
  8. Have you experienced a loss that continues to impact your life?
  9. What’s the biggest lie that you were told in childhood?
  10. What movie or book character do you relate to the most?
  11. Do you think people should be judged on one bad action in the past?
  12. Are you confident about yourself?
  13. What was your saddest day ever?
  14. Do you ever feel lonely?
  15. What’s your unpopular opinion or hot take about something?
  16. Have you ever been cheated on?
  17. What’s considered a red flag to others but not to you?
  18. What do you wish you knew more about?
  19. Do you approve of best guy friends?
  20. When do you know your love for someone has died out?
  21. How important is family to you?
  22. Do you believe in a higher power?
  23. Do you think there’s an age when people should settle down?
  24. Have you ever been to therapy?
  25. What’s your biggest fear?

Fun Questions to Ask Your Crush

Questions to ask your crush
Questions to ask your crush

Forget all those lame get-to-know-you questions about pets and hometowns. It’s time to cut to the chase and show them you’re a fun person to be with:

  1. If you were a snack, what would you be?
  2. What was your most embarrassing moment? I’ll share one of mine too!
  3. What’s a weird talent or useless superpower you think you have?
  4. What’s the best and worst pickup line someone has ever used on you?
  5. Would you rather have your entire internet history viewed publicly or let your grandma read your texts?
  6. What’s a cheesy dad joke you know that always makes you laugh?
  7. Which meme best represents your life right now?
  8. What are your 3 most frequently used emojis?
  9. Are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see.
  10. If there were a zombie apocalypse, what would you do to survive?
  11. If you’re here then who’s running heaven?
  12. What does your Instagram feed look like?
  13. Aside from taking my breath away, what do you do for a living?
  14. Are you a secret? Because I don’t think I can share you.
  15. Random fact you know?
  16. What are your biggest fashion regrets?
  17. Do you remember the weirdest dream you’ve ever had?
  18. What’s your celebrity crush?
  19. Have you ever faked a sick day? Do you get away with it?
  20. If someone told you your partner had been arrested without further explanation, what would your first reaction be?
  21. Is it just the Wifi or am I feeling a connection?
  22. Are you geometry? Because you look good at every angle.
  23. Any theories that I like talking to you this much?
  24. Are you religious? Because you’re the answer to all of my prayers.
  25. Can I tie your shoes? Because I don’t want you to fall for anyone else.
  26. Did you just fart? Cause’ you blew me away๐Ÿ’จ

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Frequently Asked Questions

What questions should I ask my crush?

You can ask some icebreaker questions like their hobbies and interests, things you guys have in common, or job/ambition that reveals their goal and motivation.

What are good flirty questions?

  • On a scale of 1-10, how cute do you think I am?
  • What kinds of kisses do you like?
  • What’s your favourite thing about me?