Iingcebiso ezili-10 ezilungileyo zokuThetha esidlangalaleni zokukunceda ukuba ukhanye

Nantsi imfihlelo kwimpumelelo yam elandelayo: itoni ye Iingcebiso zokuthetha esidlangalaleni ukuze ulungele kwaye uqiniseke ngakumbi ngaphambi kosuku lwakho olukhulu.

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Xa ndayisa kumsitho wothweso-zidanga kwisikolo samabanga aphakathi, ndandisoyika kakhulu. Ndoyika eqongeni, ndaziva ndineentloni ngekhamera, kwaye ndinazo zonke iintlobo zeemeko ezilihlazo ezizayo entlokweni yam. Umzimba wam ububanda, izandla zam bezingathi ziyangcangcazela ndimane ndizicingela.

Ndandinazo zonke iimpawu zakudala ze I-glossophobia. Ndandingekayilungeli loo ntetho, kodwa emva koko, ndafumana amazwi amacebiso okundinceda ndenze ngcono kwixesha elizayo.

Jonga apha ngezantsi!

• #1 -Yazi abaphulaphuli bakho
• #2 - Cwangcisa kwaye uchaze intetho yakho
• #3 - Fumana isimbo
• #4 -Nika ingqalelo kwisingeniso sakho kunye nesiphelo
• #5 - Sebenzisa izixhobo ezibonwayo
• #6 -Wasebenzise kakuhle amanqaku
• #7 - Ziqhelise
• #8 – Isantya & nqumama
• #9 - Ulwimi olusebenzayo kunye nentshukumo
• #10-Udlulisele umyalezo wakho
• #11 - Ziqhelanise nemeko

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Isiqingatha somsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe siza ngaphambi kokuba ude ukhwele eqongeni. Ukulungiselela kakuhle kuya kukuqinisekisa ukuzithemba ngakumbi kunye nokusebenza ngcono.

#1 - Bazi abaphulaphuli bakho

Kubalulekile ukubaqonda abaphulaphuli bakho, njengoko intetho yakho kufuneka inxibelelene nabo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Kuya kuba yinto engento yanto ukuthetha into abasele beyazi okanye into enzima kakhulu ukuba bangayityi ngexesha elifutshane.

Kufuneka usoloko uzama ukusombulula ingxaki uninzi lwabo abanayo. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza intetho yakho, zama 5 kutheni ubuchule. Oku kunokukunceda ngokwenene ukuba ufumane kwaye ufike emazantsi engxaki.

Ukwakha unxibelelwano olungcono nesihlwele, zama ukufumanisa ukuba ngowuphi umxholo kunye nemiyalezo abayikhathaleleyo. Nantsi imibuzo emi-6 onokuthi uyibuze ukuqonda abaphulaphuli bakho kwaye ufumanise ukuba yintoni abafana ngayo:

1. Ngobani?
2. Bafuna ntoni?
3. Yintoni enidibanisa ngayo bafana?
4. Yintoni abayaziyo?
5. Injani imeko yabo?
6. Ngawaphi amathandabuzo, uloyiko kunye nokungaqondi kwabo?

Funda ngakumbi ngombuzo ngamnye Apha.

#2 - Cwangcisa kwaye uchaze iNtetho yakho

Yenza isicwangciso sento ofuna ukuyithetha emva koko uchaze iingongoma eziphambili ukwenza ulwandlalo. Kulwandlalo, ungadwelisa izinto ezincinci ezimbalwa kwinqaku ngalinye ocinga ukuba zibalulekile. Hamba kuyo yonke into kwakhona ukuze uqinisekise ukuba isakhiwo sinengqiqo kwaye zonke iingcamango zifanelekile.

Zininzi izakhiwo onokuzifumana kwaye akukho qhinga linye kuzo, kodwa ungajonga kolu lwandlalo lucetyisiweyo lwentetho engaphantsi kwemizuzu engama-20:

• Qala ngokubamba ingqalelo yabaphulaphuli bakho (nantsi indlela): ngaphantsi kwemizuzu emi-2.
• Cacisa umbono wakho ngokucacileyo nangobungqina, njengokubalisa ibali, ukubonisa iingongoma zakho: malunga nemizuzu eli-15.
• Gqiba ngokushwankathela amanqaku akho aphambili (nantsi indlela): ngaphantsi kwemizuzu emi-2.

#3 - Fumana iSimbo

Ayinguye wonke umntu onesitayile sakhe sokuthetha esahlukileyo, kodwa kuya kufuneka uzame iindlela ezahlukeneyo ukubona ukuba yeyiphi eyona ikufaneleyo. Isenokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, ehlekisayo, esondeleleneyo, esesikweni, okanye enye yeendlela ezininzi.

Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukwenza ukuba ukhululeke kwaye ube nendalo xa uthetha. Musa ukuzinyanzela ukuba ube ngumntu ongenguye kwaphela ukuze ufumane uthando okanye uhleke kubaphulaphuli; inokukwenza ubonakale uyinkohliso.

NgokukaRichard Newman, umbhali wentetho kunye nesithethi esiphambili, kukho iindlela ezi-4 ezahlukeneyo onokuthi ukhethe kuzo, kubandakanya umkhuthazi, umlawuli, ukonwabisa kunye nomququzeleli. Funda ngakumbi ngazo kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi eyona ikufaneleyo, abaphulaphuli bakho kunye nomyalezo wakho.

#4 -Nika ingqalelo kwiNtshayelelo yakho kunye nesiphelo

Khumbula ukuqala nokugqiba intetho yakho ngenqaku eliphezulu. Intshayelelo elungileyo iya kutsala umdla wesihlwele, ngelixa isiphelo esihle sibashiya benombono ohlala ixesha elide.

Kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokwenza qala intetho yakho, kodwa eyona ilula kukuqala ngokuzazisa njengomntu onento efanayo nabaphulaphuli bakho. Eli ikwalithuba elihle lokubeka ingxaki uninzi lwabaphulaphuli abanayo, njengale ndiyenzileyo kwintshayelelo yeli nqaku.

Kwaye ke, ngomzuzu wokugqibela, ungagqiba intetho yakho ngesicatshulwa esikhuthazayo okanye enye ye ezinye iindlela ezininzi.

Nantsi intetho yeTED kaMhlekazi uKen Robinson, awathi wayigqiba ngesicatshulwa sikaBenjamin Franklin.

#5 -Sebenzisa izixhobo ezibonwayo

Amaxesha amaninzi xa uthetha esidlangalaleni, awudingi ncedo luvela kwislayidi, imalunga nawe namazwi akho. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko, xa isihloko sakho sisityebi kulwazi oluneenkcukacha, ukusebenzisa ezinye izilayidi ezinezixhobo ezibonwayo kunokuba luncedo ngokwenene kubaphulaphuli bakho ukuba bafumane umfanekiso ocacileyo womyalezo wakho.

Ngaba ukhe waqaphela ukuba nezithethi zeTED ezimangalisayo zisebenzisa izixhobo ezibonwayo? Kungenxa yokuba bayabanceda ukuba babonise imiba abathetha ngayo. Idatha, iitshathi, iigrafu okanye iifoto / iividiyo, umzekelo, zinokukunceda uchaze amanqaku akho ngcono. Kwezinye iimeko, ungasebenzisa iiprops ukwenza ukuba kube yinto ekhethekileyo xa kufanelekile.

#6 -Wasebenzise kakuhle amanqaku

Kwiintetho ezininzi, kwamkelekile ngokupheleleyo ukwenza amanqaku kwaye uwazise eqongeni nawe. Akapheleli nje ekukuncedeni ukhumbule iinxalenye ezibalulekileyo zentetho yakho, kodwa anokukwenza ube nokuzithemba ngakumbi; kulula kakhulu ukulawula intetho yakho xa usazi ukuba unamanqaku akho oza kubuyela kuwo. 

Nantsi indlela yokwenza amanqaku alungileyo:

• Bhala kakhulu ukukunceda ukuba ubambe izimvo zakho ngokulula ngakumbi.
• Sebenzisa amaphepha amancinci ukugcina amanqaku akho elumkile.
• inani ukuba kunokwenzeka baxutywe.
• Landela ulwandlalo kwaye ubhale amanqaku akho ngendlela efanayo ukunqanda ukumosha izinto.
• Nciphisa amazwi. Bhala nje amagama angundoqo ukuze uzikhumbuze, musa ukuyibhala yonke loo nto.

#7 - Ziqhelise

Ziqhelise ukuthetha amaxesha ambalwa ngaphambi kosuku lwe-D ukuze uphucule izakhono zakho zokuthetha esidlangalaleni. Isenokuvakala ilula, kodwa kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa zegolide zokufumana uninzi kwixesha lakho lokuziqhelanisa.

• Ziqhelise eqongeni -Ungazama ukuziqhelanisa eqongeni (okanye indawo oya kuma kuyo) ukuze uzivele ngegumbi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kungcono ukuma embindini kwaye uzame ukunamathela kuloo ndawo.
• Yiba nomntu njengabaphulaphuli bakho – Zama ukucela abahlobo abambalwa okanye oogxa bakho ukuba babe ngabaphulaphuli bakho kwaye ubone indlela abasabela ngayo kule nto uyithethayo.
• Khetha impahla -A efanelekileyo kunye impahla ekhululekile kuya kukunceda uzive uzinzile kwaye unobuchule xa usenza intetho yakho. 
• Yenza utshintsho -Imathiriyeli yakho inokungasoloko ibetha inqaku layo xa uziqhelanisa, kodwa kulungile. Ungoyiki ukutshintsha ezinye izimvo emva kokuvavanya.

Kwinqanaba leeNgcebiso zokuThetha koLuntu

Lixesha lakho lokuba ukhanye! Nanga amacebiso ambalwa omele uwakhumbule xa usenza intetho yakho emangalisayo.

#8 – Isantya & Misa

Naka u isantya sakho. Ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza okanye ukucotha kakhulu kunokuthetha ukuba abaphulaphuli bakho bayaphoswa ngumxholo wentetho yakho, okanye balahlekelwe ngumdla ngenxa yokuba ubuchopho babo busebenza ngokukhawuleza kunomlomo wakho.

Kwaye ungalibali ukunqumama. Ukuthetha rhoqo kunokwenza kube nzima kubaphulaphuli ukwetyisa ulwazi lwakho. Hlehlisa intetho yakho ibe ngamacandelo amancinci kwaye unike imizuzwana yokuthula phakathi kwawo.

Ukuba kukho into oyilibalayo, qhubeka nentetho yakho yonke kangangoko unako (okanye ujonge amanqaku akho). Ukuba uyakhubeka, nqumama umzuzwana, emva koko uqhubeke.

Usenokuqonda ukuba kukho nto uyilibeleyo kulwandlalo lwakho, kodwa abaphulaphuli mhlawumbi abayi kuyazi loo nto, ngoko emehlweni abo, yonke into oyithethayo yiyo yonke into oyilungisileyo. Ungavumeli le nto incinci yonakalise intetho yakho okanye ukuzithemba kwakho kuba usenayo yonke into oza kubanika yona.

#9 - Ulwimi olusebenzayo kunye neNtshukumo

Ukukuxelela ukuba uqaphele ulwimi lwakho lomzimba kunokuba yinto enhle, kodwa kuyimfuneko. Ulwimi lomzimba sesinye sezona zakhono zisebenzayo zokuthetha ukukunceda ukuba wakhe unxibelelwano olungcono nabaphulaphuli kwaye ubenze bagxile ngcono.

• Uqhagamshelo lamehlo -Kuya kufuneka ujonge kwindawo yabaphulaphuli, kodwa ungawasusi amehlo akho ngokukhawuleza. Eyona ndlela ilula kukucinga entlokweni yakho ukuba kukho iindawo ezi-3 zabaphulaphuli, enye ngasekhohlo, embindini nasekunene. Emva koko, xa uthetha, jonga kwindawo nganye okwethutyana (mhlawumbi malunga nemizuzwana emi-5-10) ngaphambi kokuba udlulele kwezinye.  
• intshukumo -Ukujikeleza amaxesha ambalwa ngexesha lentetho yakho kuya kukunceda ukuba ujongeke ngokwendalo (ewe, kuphela xa ungemanga emva kweqonga). Ukuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa ukuya ekhohlo, ukuya ekunene okanye phambili kunokukunceda uzive ukhululekile.
• Izijekulo zezandla - Ukuba ubambe imakrofoni ngesandla esinye, phumla kwaye ugcine esinye isandla sendalo. Bukela iividiyo ezimbalwa ukubona ukuba izithethi ezikhulu zishukumisa njani izandla zazo, emva koko uzilinganise. 

Jonga le vidiyo kwaye ufunde kokubini umxholo wesithethi kunye nolwimi lomzimba.

#10-Udlulisele umyalezo wakho

Intetho yakho ifanele idlulisele umyalezo kubaphulaphuli, maxa wambi ube nentsingiselo, uxhokonx’ ingcinga okanye okhuthazayo ukuze ukhumbuleke ngakumbi. Qinisekisa ukuba uzisa umyalezo ophambili wentetho yonke uze uwushwankathele ekugqibeleni. Jonga ukuba uTaylor Swift wenza ntoni kwintetho yakhe yokuphumelela kwiYunivesithi yaseNew York; emva kokubalisa ibali lakhe kwaye anike imizekelo embalwa emifutshane, udlulisele umyalezo wakhe 👇 

“Kwaye andizuxoka, ezi mpazamo ziyakwenza ukuba ulahlekelwe zizinto.

Ndizama ukukuxelela ukuba ukulahlekelwa zizinto akuthethi nje ukulahlekelwa. Amaxesha amaninzi, xa silahlekelwa zizinto, nathi sizuza izinto.”

#11 – Lungelelanisa neMeko

Ukuba ubona ukuba abaphulaphuli bakho baphelelwa ngumdla kwaye bayaphazamiseka, ngaba uya kuqhubeka nayo yonke into njengoko bekucwangcisiwe?

Ngamanye amaxesha ungayenza kwaye kufuneka uyenze ngendlela eyahlukileyo, njengokuzama ukunxibelelana ngakumbi nesihlwele ukuhlalisa igumbi. 

Usenokuma ukuze ubuze imibuzo embalwa ukuze ufumane umdla ongakumbi kubaphulaphuli uze ubuyisele ingqalelo yabo kuwe nakwintetho yakho. Zama ukusebenzisa isoftware yokubonisa esebenzayo ukubuza i umbuzo ovulekileyo, okanye babonise izandla ngokulula kwaye ubacele ukuba baphendule ngokuphakamisa izandla.

Akukho zinto zininzi onokuthi uzenze kwalapho, ngoko ke kukho enye indlela ekhawulezayo nelula, kukuzikhupha eqongeni kwaye uzibandakanye nesihlwele ngemizuzu embalwa.

Apha ngasentla zezona ngcebiso zibalaseleyo zokuthetha esidlangalaleni zokukunceda ulungiselele ukungabikho kweqonga kwaye kukunike ukuzithemba kuyo. Ngoku, masingene ekubhaleni intetho, ukuqala ngentshayelelo!